2021 Desk Calendar-Emotional Baby

The rabbit design desk calendar has entered its third year I am very happy to continue to accompany you with the design of the rabbit next year ☺︎ The theme of the 2021 desk calendar is "Emotional Baby" The emotional baby picture book given by milk powder is now Mu Ke’s favorite Every time it is time to tell a story, I will take out this set of picture books by myself Because of this, this series of illustrations was born in the 100-day challenge. Mu Ke reached the age of three or four It becomes extremely important to recognize emotions and learn how to deal with them Personification of emotions through picture books is very helpful for children to understand emotions I think the desk calendar this time is also very suitable for children♡ Dimensions: 10.8 x 14.7 cm Printer: Dian Dian Printing The following is a short story of each month's emotional baby and their birth https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50507954553_678fc41247_b.jpg [Happy Baby] Recently I took an emotion course and discovered that I often have a misunderstanding. I hope I can be happy every day. I only want to have good emotions, not bad emotions. However, good and bad are actually relative. Only when there are bad things can you feel good. If you have never experienced unhappiness, how can you understand what happy emotions are. Therefore, there is no need to hate bad emotions, as long as we know how to get along with each emotion, we can spend every day comfortably ☺︎ As we always ask our children not to be angry or cry, is it also a misunderstanding~ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50507954473_a1e5f8fe5c_b.jpg [LOVE baby] Mu Ke was lying on the bed before going to bed yesterday, holding me and saying, "I love you so much", and immediately burst into flames /// I also said "I love you so much", and Mu Ke immediately replied "I love you so much~"♡ To whom do you want to say I love you this day☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50507954438_03d40dbc7c_b.jpg [Calm baby] Most of the peaceful babies were ignored by us. I also found him after reading the color monster picture book. As I said yesterday, emotions are not divided into good or bad, but relative. Too happy and too sad to be angry is actually not good for us. Everyone should have experienced physical fatigue after being too excited. Emotions are like a line. Too high or low affects our health. What makes us most comfortable is actually a calm baby close to the midline. When we truly live in the present, no longer worry about regretting the past total, and no longer delusion about the future, we will find that the calm baby has actually been by your side ☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50508827302_9c993b6387_b.jpg [Angry baby] Recently, when Mu Ke was angry, she would stomped her feet, slapped her thighs, and hit anything on the wall of the table, and sometimes hit us. I remembered the color monster picture book I bought before, and read it with me one day before going to bed. The appearance of various emotions. However, even if I know that I am angry, I can't control myself not to vent it. I think this will happen not only to children, but adults must also have this experience. What should I do when I am angry? Many picture books also mention it, but I don't want to follow it after mentioning several methods. I remembered saying okay with my husband a long time ago, when I was not consciously excited, I hope he can say a spell so that I can detect it, compare it to ask Mu Ke what you like, Mu Ke said "biscuits", I said that next time you are angry I kept talking about biscuits, biscuits and biscuits~ to see if I feel better. Mu Ke responded quickly to me, so I will say what my mother likes next time I get angry (laughs) Then Mu Ke said that he still had to choose another thing he liked, so he went to the snack cabinet and looked at the bottle of milk. Finally, when Mu Ke was angry, his spell became "biscuit milk"~ Later, when Mu Ke was so angry that he wanted to do it, I immediately said, "Biscuit milk~~Who owns the biscuit milk~~" Of course, if his tone is light and happy, Mu Ke quickly laughed and said mine, if it hasn’t eased. I will hold him and say the spell, I think the effect is pretty good ☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50508662286_04c044a64d_b.jpg [Baby Courage] Courage is a force initiated from within, not just external strength. We all hope that the child is strong and courageous and not afraid, but the courage baby will come to you not just for words, he may be a bit stubborn, sometimes the more he wants him to appear, the farther he hides. A sense of belonging is the key to whether a courageous baby shows up. Have you watched a video where the child crawls on a transparent ground. The bottom seems to be very high. The different reactions of the two groups of mothers opposite will determine whether the child dares to move on. When we know that someone will always stand by and support ourselves unconditionally When we discover that we are not alone in our struggle Courage baby, just appear next to you naturally ☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50507954353_fd844298ce_b.jpg [Lonely Baby] I think everyone should be familiar with him. Today I want to talk about newborn babies. When Mu Ke was just born, a hundred-year-old parenting method was popular on the Internet. I also bought one of the books recommended by everyone (I have forgotten the title of the book) The effect is basically to "train" the child. For example, the practice of training the baby to sleep overnight is not to deal with it immediately after crying. After excluding some physical needs (stool, wet diaper, hungry, etc.), it should be extended slowly Let the child cry for 5 minutes, 10 minutes... until 30 minutes or even longer, so that the child can gradually learn to cry is useless, and can learn to sleep overnight At the moment I really think this method is amazing, and I tried it once. I forgot how long Mu Ke cried and I couldn’t stand it. I immediately gave up picking up the child to comfort me, thinking in my heart, what if I can’t sleep overnight, why should I? I deliberately made my child cry so sad but deliberately ignored it. Looking back at this theory now, I feel incredible, how can I want to train a baby who hasn't been born long enough to learn to cry? And in fact, there are many scientific studies that show that children crying for too long can harm their brains, and when the children stop crying, they are actually very depressed. When you are lucky, I finally succeeded and the children can sleep overnight. , But I don't know how helpless and completely give up inside the child. However, novice parents know that the days after the child is born are really difficult to stay up. They cannot sleep well in the middle of the night and have to deal with the various needs of the child during the day. They really try various methods just to get a good night’s sleep. When I was raising children at the age of 100, I also saw many parents proudly sharing their success stories. I can’t help but want to tell everyone, don’t try this way Just imagine, when you are helpless and want to ask for help, the person closest to you is by your side but chooses to ignore it. How great is this kind of harm. No one will cry deliberately. If a child is crying, he must be in need of help. Only we, as parents, can give the child the help they need, and may not be able to help the child well when we are in a bad state. So, what we can do is to seek help from other people instead of giving up the child. https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50507954313_e58060b42c_b.jpg [Fear of the baby] One time I couldn’t help but lose my temper at Mu Ke. Looking at Mu Ke’s scared expression, she felt a little unbearable. After calming down, she hugged Mu Ke and asked if she felt that her mother was too fierce and scared. Then Mu Ke nodded. , Began to cry. When we looked at the color monster picture book together, when it came to the page of fear of monsters, Mu Ke immediately mentioned that there was a fear of monsters in his stomach that day. I only discovered that compared with the happy time, the emotion of fear is more impressive. However, the child will not remember what he did to make the mother angry, but only remember that the mother was angry that day. And we can’t help getting angry, sometimes because we have accumulated some emotions in our hearts. Children’s actions are just a tipping point, perhaps also a reason for us to vent our emotions. It seems that as long as you are not behaved, I have a reason. Can be angry. In fact, when I am angry, I know in my heart that what a child does is not worthy of being so angry, but he often blames the child on the child, and instead accuses the child of what is wrong to make us angry. The little child only feels scared and does not understand why his mother is so angry. Learning to recognize and deal with emotions, and further not to accumulate emotions, is not only the homework of the child, but also the place where parents should study together. When I still can’t keep myself from getting angry, at least afterwards, I will say sorry to Mu Ke and explain why my mother was like this. This is not right. Let’s work hard next time~ Because of this, the spell used when Mu Ke was angry yesterday was "biscuit milk", and mine was "OREO" ☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50507954288_186b6eacac_b.jpg [Sad baby] A sad baby is a little shy, and it is often difficult for us to detect, and mistakenly think that he is an angry baby. Mu Ke couldn't watch TV anymore because the time was up. In fact, she felt sad because she couldn't watch TV anymore, but she was angry. When we are stabbed by other people's words, we actually feel hurt and sad inside, but our response is an angry and excited counterattack. We need to practice detecting the sad baby inside, giving him comfort, a hug, whether for the child, yourself or even the person you care about ☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50508662031_b4a7b33765_b.jpg [Crash baby] This is not KFC! ! ! no no no Have you ever experienced the period when you don’t want a baby? You should just want to say "I'm going to collapse" in your heart, and want to shake your shoulders vigorously and shout, what do you want~~~ Of course, this is not because the child is willing to or deliberately sings against you. It is because the 2-3 year old child is in a sensitive period of order and cannot accept and understand all unexpected changes, so it seems that if it is not as good as his intention, it will be instant. collapse. Once we understand that this is a necessary process for a child’s development, we may be able to follow the child’s pace a little bit in the same way. When the child insists on accomplishing something in a certain way, sometimes we may be reluctant to admit defeat or It’s uncomfortable to follow the child’s request, as if everything goes according to the child’s will to spoil the child, but if you think about it carefully, the child’s request is actually harmless, and most of it is a small matter for us. And because of this, we Sometimes there will be "Why do you care about this little thing like this?" and think that children are too capricious to make fuss. We don't know that the little things we think are the big things in children's hearts. After all, children have only been in this world for a few years. Since I think it’s just a trivial matter, why can’t you follow the children to be happy ☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50507954213_9abeaf047c_b.jpg [Embarrassed baby] The embarrassing baby who fans wished is coming♡ When the rabbit feels embarrassed, it will hide it with a smirk (... How will you react when you are embarrassed☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50508661961_b1181ea9e3_b.jpg 【Jealous Baby】 When our eyes are focused on what others have, jealous babies will appear, usually accompanied by angry or sad babies. Children often think that the toys in other people’s hands are more fun. I still remember that when I took Mu Ke to the parent-child pavilion, I always wanted to snatch the toys from other children, and finally got the toys of the other party. For things that others are playing with later, it seems that toys become unfun as long as they reach their own hands. This mood continues until we become parents or follow us like a shadow. Children from other families are always more angelic. Husbands from other families don’t disappoint. Everyone is doing well. Why can’t I do it? Everyone has angel baby god teammates why I don't have one. Our eyes always only see what others have, and only the good side presented by others People are always used to hiding their bad side, and only they can see it How can it be compared on the same scale? Try to pay more attention to yourself, and you will slowly find that we have more than we think Everyone has a unique self, which no one else has We should be proud of our existence☺︎ https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/50508826942_3d44733813_b.jpg [Shy baby] The shy baby is very cute. Recently, my sister-in-law bought an online English learning app for Mu Ke. She learns through interactive animations for one lesson every day. Finally, there are also videos to practice speaking. Mu Ke will be shy and hide into my body after speaking English. Here, I will hug him and say you are great♡ A shy baby is a very natural existence. It will appear when you are not used to doing something. You think you might be behaving badly or fear that you are not behaving well and dare not act. When a shy baby appears, please don’t drive him away, otherwise he will become scared and hide deeper. Just accept his presence, give some encouragement or a hug, and slowly he will be satisfied with your familiarity every time Left temporarily ☺︎ - **For fans, please search for rabbits. Rabbit + Design = Life** **Rabbit design life** ❚ Illustration/ Photography/ Wedding Design/ Handmade/ Course ❚ I love anything beautiful, and I like to transform every bit of life into beautiful and moving paintings through my hands. "Let the things you like become life" Hand Writer-Rabbit/Rabbit He loved graffiti since he was a child, and at the age of three, he drew a picture framed by a nanny. Self-taught computer graphics, since my brother gave an electronic drawing board on his birthday in a certain year, he most often used photoshop to create, and illustrator and inDesign have also been studied one by one. Because the son plunged into the hand-made world, he continued to use his hands to create more healing works, like a child, to nurture and protect, let the beauty continue to every child. 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