Magazine No.122 Organize the April issue and start again | Small Days

How we learn to say goodbye My friend Y left us a few days ago to become an angel in heaven. It was only a short year from the time when I learned about the difficult illness to when I really left us. In the upcoming farewell ceremony, mutual friends closely joined the group to sort out the traces left by her during her lifetime, including short texts, videos, sounds, laughter, and thoughts. We sorted out the sadness and archived the memories in the process. , Only then did I realize that there are so many things left by one person, but only so few. The plastic boards that your classmates wrote to you when you graduated from high school (I don’t even know if it’s still popular on campus?); There are too many tracking relationships on the group, and what was once cherished has become the most difficult part of life, wandering between letting go and not giving up, objects have become the basis of memory, I am afraid that after saying goodbye, it seems to be so forgotten, so I have gradually become a person who is not good at tidying up. In this issue of stories, we start with people whose job it is to organize: Zhou Qianru, director of the National Library Collection Group who loves and cherishes books, uses her profession to establish order in the sea of books; a female student from Beiyi University who can organize test preparation knowledge into clear subject notes Papaya; and Blair, a full-time organizer who restores peace of mind through the process of tidying up. The editorial department also walked into the living space of four people who are good at tidying up: the housewife surnamed Lin who confidently declared that she already has an ideal kitchen; she tried to make the interior into a bright red with a sense of the outdoors; the designer Bede who dared to seek changes in the space; There is also Amos, which can be called a Chiayi city boy, by accurately positioning classic furniture. In addition to the actual arrangement, how should we break up and store the interpersonal relationship and the soul? The editorial department has recruited Sister Danni, who is earnestly trying to persuade the bitch brothers and sisters in the world to escape from the misery of human feelings, and her partners Xiao Lai and Ji Sihao, to teach everyone how to bravely say goodbye to relationships that do not belong to you. The actor Yuan Aifei, who chose to move away from the city to the mountains with her husband, will share with you the process of her practice of giving up with a full and rich mind. Finally, fortunately, it ends with the article of the writer Xiao Yihui. For writers, writing is a record, a sorting, and a farewell at the same time. I remember it very deeply. It was in the early spring of a certain year in the Faculty of Arts. I held a reading club with my classmates in the department. The senior who led the reading chose Liu Zijie’s "Seven Days After the Father". The senior said he believed that Liu Zijie was crying while writing. I finished the article, but I was only a freshman at that time, at such a fearless age with no chance of death, I didn’t know that the tears between the lines were real. The original title was taken as: tidying up, saying goodbye, and starting again. It was not until I held a memorial meeting for Y with my friends at home, opened the plum wine we brewed together last year, played cats and board games, and did what Y loved when he was alive. Sorrow can also be sorted out with a smile, maybe sorting out is never for saying goodbye, but for us to remember forever. So in a flash of my mind, I decided to remove the word farewell. The last sentence of Liu Zijie's "Seven Days After My Father" is as follows: "Please pack up your emotions, we are about to land." I want to add a few words to the last full stop of the story: "I will always remember, that I'm leaving—" small day calendar one thing Recipe savior that can be mastered by dessert novice who heals the spring afternoon The old taste that has been experienced through time will not hesitate even if the journey is exhausting Start this year with one sentence a day Living where people should live My Journey to Green Island, Mountains and Seas Carnival to experience the infinite charm of Venice Mask Festival illustrator creation diary Rainy: A cup of coffee once relieved my worries, I thank you with illustrations column Ma Shifang: Do you want to live with 100,000 CDs? Chen Xue: Less is More say something Zhou Suzong: Unrestrained and introverted, the poetic heart writes all things and life in the world with Taiwanese poetry cover story Organize and Reset Part 1 Organizers in life It is my luck and happiness to establish order for the vast sea of books Practice repeatedly, organize and temper to create a stable self No longer let the material occupy the mind, start a quiet and good life with a subtractive life Part 2 Organize your living space Sharing with children makes the changes in life a landscape for display Textures that bring objects to life are ideal for collectors Integrate camping into daily life and buy high-end equipment without heartache Tidying up is a sense of responsibility, and the courage to give up can lead to a more focused life Part 3 Farewell, and start again— Hit the wall as much as you want, kick the iron plate, it hurts enough, it's the beginning of recovery Only by practicing giving up unsuitable material and interpersonal relationships can we truly see and grow ourselves You are so like you Renting a house is a gesture Use objects to stack up a room that knows how to accompany our favorite store Gather the passion for coffee and picture books to achieve the charming scenery of the socks town snack scenery Hally Chen: Eating the most ordinary Taiwanese food in the alleys of the most foreign residential area in Taipei