Ou Xiangjiang

Author: Professor Xiang River region Publisher: Bright Light Culture Book size: 150mm x 210mm Number of pages: 320 pages ISBN: 978-988-8716-29-6 【brief introduction】 This book is a new version of "Why Love and Don't Know Each Other", with a new chapter "Quality of Couples". Professor Ou Xiangjiang, who has particular experience in marriage and family therapy, sexual relations, personal growth, and counseling and service, talked about why many couples "love and do not know each other" in the preface of "Why do you love each other without knowing each other-Handbook for Couples Grow Together" : "A couple, although they spend a lot of time talking during their first love, they know each other’s past, family background, career ideals, personality, beliefs, etc., and these knowledge is just a preliminary understanding that can help them decide to go to the second together. Marriage journey in the human world; but after we got married, we lived close to each other. Only after we got married, we realized that our understanding of each other is so shallow and there are so many places to adapt. Moreover, marriage is an organic life body. There are new developments and evolutions. There have been a lot of changes between the married "I" and the "I" that were in love in the past. We all need to recognize ourselves, each other, and the organic life body of marriage. It’s often said that couples can love and know each other, isn’t it an extremely good thing? We asked, why do so many couples love each other but don’t know each other? I think the answer is clichéd but true. It is the lack of communication between the couple to continue to know each other, the lack of time to get along with each other, and the lack of enlightening communication content. "This booklet for sharing the growth of a couple can be used as a bridge for the couple to talk and understand each other. Particularly suitable for sharing discussions in couples' groups. 【About the Author】 Professor Ou Xiangjiang Professor of Counselling Department of Chinese Theological Research Institute, former director of Breakthrough Counseling Center, Master of Marriage and Family Therapy and Doctor of Pastoral at Fuller Theological Seminary. In recent years, he has been particularly knowledgeable in issues such as men, gender relations and personal growth, and has been a lecturer for many public lectures on related topics.